Women's sexual fantasies
Unlike their male counterparts, women and their sexual needs, wants, and fantasies have not been as studied and encouraged by society until very recently. Because of this, there is less consensus on what is a common female fantasy. But one big part of the sexuality is being wanted and adored. Women's sexualities are in a broader spectrum than men's, and there are more bisexual women than men. There are also far more women that enjoy watching lesbian porn than there are straight men who watch gay porn. This might be evolutionary, but there isn't much evidence yet to confirm that. It's just a theory for now. So let's read about the different sexual fantasies of women, and they like them so much.
Threesomes
Having two mean pleasure a woman at one time is a staple fantasy from many women. This fantasy is also prominent in romantic literature aimed at women. There's even artwork of women engaging in threesomes throughout the centuries. Usually, in the fantasy, one man is massaging her while the other is going down on her. She is the recipient of all the pleasure and is also valued for the nonsexual parts of her body, hence the massage. After, then is then penetrated and she orgasms again. Sometimes she gives oral pleasure but not until she has been pleasured. Threesomes with two men are embraced by female sexuality because women's orgasms are stronger than men and can last longer. It's also far less common for a man to agree to an MFM threesome as they would rather have an FMF threesome. Threesomes with another man are a fun fantasy that can get her in the mood. Especially if the new man looks handsome and is strong.
Female threesomes
Now here's where women diverge from men in their sexuality. Many women who are not even bisexual are open to a threesome with another woman and a single man. And it is best not to assume that if a woman is bisexual, she loves to have a threesome. In their threesome fantasy, they are the center of attention and pleasure. Sometimes they are even the better-looking woman that's not common either. The man doesn't pay much attention to the other woman, and they both focus on pleasing her.
Oral pleasure
Just like men and their love of blowjobs, women love to receive oral sex. However, finding a man who likes to give oral is hard. Many men still regard going down on a woman as losing their sexual positions and being emasculated. At the same time, men demand women to go down on them and become angry when a woman refuses to do so. The clitoris is a very neglected area on a woman's body. If it is stimulated, either with their partner's tongue or fingers, a woman can experience intense sexual pleasure and strong and satisfying orgasms. They even want to have their partners use vibrators on their clitoris to make sex more exciting and more interactive.
Cuddling
Now cuddling isn't sexual, but it does usually happen after sex. Women who fantasize about cuddling tend to want nonsexual touch in their relationships and outside of the bedroom. Nonsexual massages also fall under this category. Sometimes men don't hug or kiss their women until it's actually time to have sex. These women still want sex, but they are now fantasizing about what they don't get. They fantasize about being intimate with their partner in a tender and gentle way. Sex usually doesn't happen in cuddling fantasies, or it happens right before cuddling begins, but it's not part of the primary fantasy.
Roleplay
Embracing fantasy and imagination in the bedroom is one of the main reasons women love to use roleplay in their sexual lives. Combining imagination and creativity, they can create fun sexual scenarios with their partner. They can live out enjoyable sexual situations with props, outfits, dialogue, and settings for their fantasy. Popular roleplaying scenarios for women are student and teacher, lawyer and client, a human woman and an alien, which abducts her, and pirate and captive. Roleplay allows a woman to act differently from how she does in real life and can embrace a part of herself that she usually doesn't.
Sex with a stranger
Women have always loved the mysterious man trope. He's calm, he's handsome, and he's also great in bed. Sex with a stranger fulfills the fantasy of being carefree and doing naughty things without reservation or precautions. Sometimes in the stranger fantasy, they don't even talk. They look eyes, and run off to a private room where they have rough and fantastic sex and then ever see each other again. It's about intimacy and sexual pleasure with a mysterious stranger who knows how to please her well without needing to be taught.
Spanking
A little bit of pain can enhance a night of pleasure. Spanking is a common fantasy among women, as it is naughty and feels good to be spanked, especially if done with a firm hand or paddle. Sometimes, women asked to be put over their partner's knee and held down. Spanking usually occurs until the woman's bottom is entirely red, and she can't sit down. The stinging usually lasts for a few days, and in that time, she can feel the effect as she goes about her day.
In conclusion
When women realize that they're sexual beings with valid libidos and fantasies, they can begin to take charge of their sex life and stop waiting for their men to do it. Roleplay, oral sex, threesomes, and submission play are all healthy sexual activities for women to enjoy with the partners they feel comfortable with. As society becomes more accepting of women and their sexuality, we should see more men participating in oral sex and focusing on female pleasure at the same rate women focus on male pleasure. Women should respect their bodies and their needs first, from now on.